Friday, May 27, 2011

We Must Learn to Face Reality

Because I have been discussing TV and pop culture with you lately, and plan on continuing to do so, I have decided to share with you one of my first college documented essays in freshman year in which I discussed reality TV and why it is so popular in today's society. I think this piece touches upon well what I have talked about in previous pieces. The assignment was to chose an American icon and what better American icon of today to chose than reality TV? (I apologize for the length. It was supposed to be a five page paper.)


Reality television has been a phenomenon that is sweeping the nation. Normally new episodes are shown week-by-week and home viewers are glued to the tube as they watch other people’s lives unfold, which has been the latest popular entertainment for all of America.

There are many questions about reality television that needs some answering, such as why do people love it so much? Why do they feel obligated to help others in their quest for success? What makes people actually want to participate in these shows as contestants? Is there any end in sight to the tirade? And finally, what does reality TV represent in America?

One possible explanation is that people love attention and as fellow human beings, we love to give it to them. Plenty of times people act like idiots and portray characters because they know they are being watched and the public feed on what they deliver, “For lack of a better term these might be called Schadenfreude shows: shows that allow the audiences to view and feel sorry for (or amazed by) the indignities people are willing to endure for their fifteen minutes of fame” (Timberg 202). American Idol, America’s famous creation that some people wish was never born, is well known for this technique. People, who probably know they are bad singers but would never admit to it, audition for a spot in Hollywood week and judge and producer Simon Cowell reacts to their lack of talent with sarcastic remarks. As the audience we look forward to these moments as they are shown in the previews. We wait anxiously during commercials to see the person suffer humiliation at the hands of Simon, and if we are lucky, we will see him or her bark a lame comeback. Let us face it. We are more likely to enjoy watching a Simon and contestant banter rather than all three to four judges proclaim unanimously, “You are fantastic! Welcome to Hollywood!” The overjoyed contestant then exits the auditioning room screaming and crying, sharing the news with his or her family, gold ticket in hand. Apparently we Americans do not like to watch joyful spectacles.

Reality television originated with the fascination of other people. It supposedly all began with “man on the street” interviews, when random people are asked opinions of a particular issue, thus combining documentary filmmaking, radio, and television. “We like to see how others live as well as hear what they have to say,” says Jacquie Jordan in her book Get on TV! The Insider’s Guide to Pitching the Producers and Promoting Yourself, “Understanding or even just observing their lives gives us perspective on our own.” (201). This suggestion proves that people choose to focus more on other people’s lives rather than their own. It is a fairytale life that is not ours and yet we feel that we can relate, so it is the best of both worlds. We watch with warmth in our hearts as Lauren Conrad of The Hills drives her fancy convertible as an intern at Teen Vogue by day while partying it up with her friends by night. She is an example of living life to the fullest as she works hard to achieve what she desires. Every moment in her life is recorded, both good and bad, and it is these moments we feel reflect our own. We like to know that others, even those that seem to live luxuriously, have the same experiences we do.

Reality TV also gives us a chance to look up to someone and we root for that certain someone to succeed. In much reality programming, the name and concept of the show says it all: Who will be the next American IDOL, America’s BEST Dance Crew, America’s Next TOP Model, LAST Comic Standing, America’s FAVORITE Dancer (So You Think You Can Dance)? Perhaps we want so much to be on top of the game ourselves that when we see others do so, we feel that we also have a chance at fame and fortune. Maybe if we find it so difficult to do it for ourselves that we think that we should help others reach for something we cannot. Even if we are not assisting the individual, we just love to witness success.

Even though viewers take pleasure in observing and experiencing happiness, we are also a society who thrives on turmoil, angst, and stupidity. It gives us something to talk about. We are able to poke fun at the most hated house guests of Big Brother or America’s Next Top Model and complain about how much we dislike them, when all the while that so-called villain is the main reason everyone watches in the first place, to see what kind of mischief he or she will get into that week. It is not the games or performances that draw the American audience but the drama and occasional scandal.

Because there are so many different types of reality television, let us try to distinguish them from each other. The first and most original kind is the documentary soap opera, where every moment is videotaped (Real World, first ever reality show that premiered in 1992, The Osbournes, Laguna Beach, and The Hills). The next is the famous duo of documentary and game show genres (Survivor, another original show that started the fad, Fear Factor, The Bachelor/Bachelorette, and The Apprentice). The only difference between this and the documentary version is that there is a goal or prize at the end. Another programming reality format is one that suffices the makings of such classics as Allen Funt’s Candid Camera and Ashton Kutcher’s Punk’d, where the participants do not even know they are being recorded until it is revealed at the end of a prank they are meant to endure for a few measly minutes. Finally there is the talent search show (American Idol, So You Think You Can Dance, Star Search, Dancing with the Stars, and America’s Got Talent.) This genre includes audience participation, bother live and broadcast. (Jordan 199).

Even though for some of these categories it may not be intentional, but one constant theme in reality programming that all of these versions have in common is the competition aspect. For example, when Ryan Seacrest, host of American Idol, or Cat Deeley, hostess of So You Think You Can Dance, American Idol’s sister counterpart, announces that the phone lines are open for the rest of us couch potatoes to vote for our favorite contestants, we never fail to suddenly become airborne and tackle our phones and cells to place in our votes. Seacrest and Deeley often use the phrase “battle it out” to describe the intensity of the pressure the contestants undergo.

Competition in this setting resembles a minimized form of war and survival of the fittest while voting is a minimized form of government and suffrage, getting our voices heard in hopes for the best man or woman to win. There have been times when the tragedy of 9/11 and premiere of American Idol have been compared to display differing views of politics in the media:

“These two events—one tragic and the other a bit of a fluff—exemplify the contrasts of contemporary life in the United States; sometimes it seems that the defining problems of the era are so large and complex that many people would rather vote for their favorite contestant rather than become politically active and work for a change” (Dalton 134).

Reality TV reflects the drama in our own lives and many times we use reality TV as a reprieve from what is happening currently. Sometimes people would rather focus on a less serious form of competition to avoid worrying about the future.

A dilemma can either be as severe as a war or just a minor everyday conflict. Americans always find themselves in the midst of competition; whether it is for food, oil, shelter, jobs, money, or maybe even academics and sports, just to name a few. Competition is so prominent that even our children participate in it with their Spelling Bees, Little League, and any other activity. We are literally programmed to battle each other since childhood that it just seems normal. Our lives are run by competition, so why not gear it towards entertainment?

Reality TV represents different aspects of American life, some that have already been established, such as the obsession of viewers and fascination with other people’s lives, search for success and the ideal life, stereotypical roles, love for attention, iconography, money, and of course, competition. With this information realized, it is concluded that reality TV represents America itself as a whole! There is this need for the perfect American Dream and reality programming provides Americans with what is needed to reach this ultimate goal. Americans want a good-looking image, money, career, fame, love, and attention. Each reality show brings at least one of these components, if not all of them, to the table. They are all important to achieve the American Dream, proven to be true by every outcome of every reality TV show.

“Soon after Survivor burst onto the national stage with gigantic ratings, there was much media speculation that the reality TV boom was a fad that would run its course then go bust. But these doomsayers have been proven wrong. Reality television looks as if it has become a permanent fixture of our complex and colorful popular culture” (Jordan 202). There are so many concepts and shows out there that there seems to be no end visible over the horizon. There have been so many so many attempts at reality shows that they either have succeeded or failed, much like the lives of American individuals. The reason why reality TV is such a craze now is that it is not just a personal companion for us, it IS us.


Works Cited:

Dalton, Mary M. and Laura R. Linder. Teacher TV: Sixty Years of Teachers on Television. New
York: Peter Long Publishing, Inc., 2008. 134. Print.

(Huff, Richard M. Reality TV. Westport: The Praeger Television Collection, 2006. Print.)

Jordan, Jacquie. Get on TV! The Insider’s Guide to Pitching the Producers and Promoting
Yourself. Naperville: Sourcebooks, Inc., 2006. 199-202. Print.

Timberg, Bernard M. and Robert J. Erler. Television Talk: A History of the TV Talk Show.
Austin: University of Texas Press, 2002. 112, 202-203. Print.

Monday, May 16, 2011

I'm Baaack!

Wow! I feel like I've been gone forever! Well, the good news is I am on my summer break, which means for now I can devote my time to write about what I want when I want and other writing gigs as opposed to those pesky essays!

I have a lot of interesting things cooking for this summer's new blog posts of "Taking it One 'Stef' at a Time," including the premieres of new series and a new season of an old one...

They're performances that are peak, they're sexual, they're awkward...That's right! "Peak Performances and their Awkward Sexual Moments" are back for a brand new season! :DDD!!! Rejoice and be glad, faithful readers! Being the perverted person that I am (lol), I actually looked for sexually awkward moments in this semester's Peak Performances this time around for this specific reason, and by golly there are a good handful!

I was debating if this series should be posted only during my winter breaks, but this past winter break 2011 I drove myself crazy covering three semesters worth of sexual awkwardness, so I am going to make this series a semester thing. I was also debating on if I should continue the series in general and write about Peak Performances and other types of "moments" each time, which I still may do, but I decided that since this series was such a hit and is something I kind of seem to be known for, it should be something I do for every semester. It gives people something to look forward to :). Now I haven't started writing them yet, so give me a chance to post them! I have all summer, so hopefully I won't be doing any week long posting like I did last time.

This summer will also give me a chance to post some entries that I have been thinking about this semester, but couldn't exactly focus on until now. I will also probably come up with brand new ideas to write about throughout the summer.

Here's to an awesome summer of giving you something to read! :D

Friday, April 29, 2011

"Hey, Guys!": Just a Fun Greeting, or a Derogatory Phrase?

Tonight my father brought something to my attention. The two of us, along with my mother and aunt, went out to eat at an Italian restaurant. He enjoyed himself and had a good meal, but one thing irked him: our waiter kept addressing us as "guys" and my father was the only man there. Nothing against the waiter, for he did a good job serving us, but my father found fault with this because he's a food writer and notices things like this. He felt that instead the waiter should have referred to us as "folks" to make the term more collective. At first I didn't see the big deal with this because "guys" is such a general term, and I think I have addressed both my female and male friends as "guys" from one time or another. I think I may have also addressed you, my faithful readers, as such once or twice as well.

But then my father told me something that somewhat altered my thinking. What if the table had three men and one woman, and the waiter addressed us as "ladies?" Then all of a sudden it becomes weird. Why is it that it is so normal for us to call groups of people regardless of gender "guys," which is regarded as a male term, but we would never call groups of people "ladies" unless they are women, which is regarded as a female term?

Being the feminist that I am, this weighs on me further. Is addressing everybody as "guys" the social norm because we still live in such a patriarchal society? Should I be offended by this? As a woman, when I use the word "guys," am I insulting myself? I say this because after thinking about this now, I am kind of considering "guys" a sexist term. I never really thought of the term "guys" as sexist that much, but I'm having second thoughts about using it now.

This idea reminds me of the lyrics to Madonna's song "What it Feels Like for a Girl":
Girls can wear jeans
And cut their hair short
Wear shirts and boots
'Cause it's OK to be a boy
But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading
'Cause you think that being a girl is degrading

Is this the same thing? It's okay for us to call people "guys" but the title "ladies" or even "girls" is only reserved for females. Is it an insult to be called "girls" because it is degrading to be a girl and is it okay to call anybody "guys" because it is okay to be a "guy?"

Is the simple word "guys" symbolic of a bigger picture and we use it without even realizing it because we are so used to it being part of our culture?

Thursday, April 28, 2011

The Moment We've All Been Waiting For...My dis connect Review is Now on The Montclarion Website!!!

Photo from dis connect website
This is so exciting!!! In dis connect Generation Y questions "why" technology is taking over the lives of so many people. I loved loved LOVED this play and everything about it! :D I really hope you enjoy the review!

Best of luck to the senior BA Theater Studies majors of MSU as the graduate and move on to bigger and better things in the theater world. :) Here's to hoping as well that the dis connect phenomenon will catch on and become a published play performed for years to come!

dis connect Review

For more of the dis connect experience, check out the official website.

Monday, April 25, 2011

Peak Performances @ MSU Facebook Fan Page

Photo of the beautiful Alexander Kasser Theater from the Facebook fan page

I can't believe I never thought to post this before but here is the Peak Performances @ Montclair State University Facebook fan page and Facebook group. Here you can find out more about the shows at MSU. There are a lot more shows that play on campus than I cover on this blog, so if you'd like now you can become a fan to be more informed! :)

Saturday, April 9, 2011

dis connect Promotional Video

Promotional Poster in Memorial Auditorium
During my sophomore year at Montclair State University I have befriended senior English and Theater Studies major Amanda Schott. She is the Assistant Director of the upcoming Peak Performance dis connect, which is a brand new original production, more specifically the senior BA Theater Studies project, about our use of technology. It is premiering in the L. Howard Fox Studio Theatre next Thursday. The idea for a play like this had to have happened sooner or later considering how technology is so prominent in our lives nowadays haha.

Because Amanda has been trying to promote the show via Facebook (ironically), I decided to help her by making this promotional video, starring Amanda herself. In it she discusses the background of dis connect, what she wants the audience to take with them from the performance, etc. Interestingly she talks about how our generation, Generation Y, is mainly affected by technology. I can vouch for that. Here I am promoting a production trying to convey that very message by using my Canon camera, MacBook Pro, Facebook, Blogspot, and YouTube.



Also, here is a preview of the show, which is discussed in my interview with Amanda. (Contains some choice language):


If you want more details, please check out this Facebook event. For even more details and ticket information, please click here.

If you are in the Montclair area, please come check out dis connect. Good luck to the cast and crew! It promises to be a very memorable show!

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

I GOT PUBLISHED!!!

Last month I became a member of The National Society of Collegiate Scholars (NSCS), which is an honors society that helps its members obtain certain tools to reach their goals. It provides its members with different opportunities such as scholarships, while also other activities to get involved, including the new TalkNerdy2Me: A College Life Blog. Naturally, I was interested to get involved with this one. ;)

TalkNerdy2Me premiered in late March, so it is a relatively new blog. I noticed that the NSCS Facebook fan page posted the lastest issue so I decided to take a look at it. As I was reading it, I came across a headline that says "From Entertaining to Annoying: How College Ruined Cheesy Pop Culture". It looked interesting, so I decided to read it. As I was reading the first paragraph, I thought it sounded familiar, and then realized it was my piece that I had submitted! It came as a surprise to me because the editor told me that she would be able to use it April 20, so this is sooner than I expected.

I am so excited and honored to have my first blog post in TalkNerdy2Me published today! You get to read me discuss Charlie Sheen, Lindsay Lohan (vaguely), "Dancing with the Stars" "American Idol," "The Bachelor," and what I have to endure when checking my e-mail. Enjoy! :D

Proud to be a pop geek!

Sunday, April 3, 2011

My Grapes of Wrath Review: Traveling Across the Country on the Kasser Stage

Let us return back to my theater oriented theme. What we have here is another one of Stefanie Sears's lost articles that could not be used for publication, much like my On the Town and Sweeney Todd articles. Though the Sweeney Todd one may not be considered a "lost article" considering it was published in The Montclarion, I decided to publish the original draft on here so people are able to read that version as well.

This is the most recent, and most likely final, installment of my Grapes of Wrath at MSU Coverage. I call it coverage because other random blog posts I have made in the past were associated with MSU's production of The Grapes of Wrath in some way. Check out the other installments just in case you want to refer back to them. They include my interview with Corinne Chandler and my piece about Ma Joad for my Women's History Month series "Real Influential Women Role Models (Real and Fictitious)".


I originally wrote this piece for The Montclarion, but unfortunately they could not use it, so I decided to post it here. Enjoy! :) It was the first show I saw at Alexander Kasser Theater this semester and I had been hearing so much about it prior so needless to say I was pretty excited!


*There may be spoilers in here to those of you who a) did not see the play, b) did not read the book, c) did not see the movie, or d) all of the above.*


The much anticipated play production The Grapes of Wrath, based on John Steinbeck's classic novel of the same name and written by Frank Galati, directed by Susan Kerner, had its run from March 9-12 at the Alexander Kasser Theater. It was a very amazing show that was very well done with its imagery that made you feel and think with its intensity. The sizable cast, introducing child cast members to the Kasser stage, very well depicted the struggles their characters were experiencing, thus conveying the message of togetherness of family to the audience and narration through use of song by the narrators who accompanied the cast onstage most of the time. It had the ability to cause audience members to look at their own lives and be thankful for what they have.

Lead man Tom Joad, played by senior Dustin Fontaine, discovers on his return back home after being in prison that his family has been forced to leave their Oklahoma home. The Joad family, along with Tom, then embarks with both enthusiasm and fear on a journey to California, where the good life is currently being advertised and jobs are promised, hitting snags in the road along the way. Ma Joad, played by senior Lena Chilingerian, was clearly the heroine of the play, trying to keep her family together while protecting them as it gradually falls apart, accepting the fact that things may not seem to go as planned after all.

What was interesting is that two characters could be having a conversation center stage, but the actions of the rest of the characters in the background would stand out just as much. This, the scenery, the use of water, the presentation of rain and sunlight, and the lifelike truck that provided the Joads with shelter throughout the play and drove on and offstage when pushed by other cast members made the play that much more realistic. The play was emotionally driven, the family faced with doubt and rumors treading into the unknown, with occasional humorous moments, nudity, and violence. The show also included a dance sequence to add more to the artistic imagery. The most beautiful scene, however, was the final one right before curtain call consisting of seniors Elizabeth Mackintosh as Rose of Sharon and Albert “AJ” Johnson Jr. as the Man in Barn. (Even though this is the ending of the play, I feel it deserves a mention, so I apologize for the spoiler.)

In the scene before this Rose of Sharon, the eldest Joad daughter who has been pregnant throughout the play, gives birth to a stillborn child. Seeking shelter from the rain, the Joad family runs into a barn at first unaware that it is already occupied. A man (Johnson) lies on the floor of the barn, dying, and it is explained by his son (Titus Gandy) that he does not have enough strength to eat solids due to starvation. Rose of Sharon offers her services and after everyone leaves the barn breastfeeds the man, thus being able to nurture someone after all. This single act embodies the work as a whole, for the theme of the play was to help each other in times of need and do what you can to survive.

Ultimately, it was the type of show that made you say, “Wow.”

Saturday, April 2, 2011

FEMME Festival at MSU: The Feminism Celebration Continues!

Taken from the Femvolution: MSU Facebook Fan page

Lately I have been getting involved with a feminism organization on campus called Femvolution: MSU that prides itself in bringing more feminism awareness to Montclair State University. You can also check out their Facebook fan page and their Facebook group.

This week they are holding a week long festival of activities called the FEMME Festival that will be touching upon different things associated with women. I am going to use this post to notify you of what exactly will be happening this week.

FEMME Festival: The Fashion of Feminism

FEMME Festival: "don't need you" Film Screening + Discussion

FEMME Festival: Craftivism 101

FEMME Festival: Flirting with Burlesque Discussion Group

From what I hear, there are even more activities than what I posted here. If you are able to come to any of these, please do so!

*The following info was added Tuesday, April 5, 2011:*

Tuesday, April 5: A hippie morning after: eco-feminism and women's alt. health
2-3 p.m.: eco-menstruation (Drop-In Center)

Wednesday, April 6: 2:30-4: Lecture on sex work and media (Brantl, Dickson Hall)

Friday, April 8: Activism through action and the moving image
3-8 p.m.: Sin Cinema: a Night of Subversive, Gendered Film (Brantl, Dickson Hall)

Check out the article in The Montclarion for more information.

Friday, April 1, 2011

AS OF TOMORROW, "TAKING IT ONE 'STEF' AT A TIME" WILL BE NO MORE

That's right, folks. I hate to say it but it turns out that this blog has become too much for me. I appreciate the support you, my faithful readers, have given it, but it cannot continue. I have decided that I want to focus more on school and studies and also on other publications. I mean, I don't know what else I could write about for this blog for I feel like I accomplished what I needed to do on here. It had a good three month run, and I had fun with it, but I must get my priorities straight. It has been additional stress. I have enough writing to do as an English major in college so I don't want to put any more unnecessary work on myself for it has a tendency to take up too much of my time and energy.

Like I said before, I am pretty protective of my writing, so I have decided to just keep my pieces private for the time being. I need time to get over that insecurity. Sometimes I wonder if creating this blog was a mistake, like maybe I did it too soon. I have been thinking about this for some time now and it has been weighing on my mind, and I don't need these kind of thoughts when I am trying to focus on other things. I've been debating of whether or not I should discontinue it and tell you all, so I have decided that I cannot wait much longer. I am sad to say it, but this is my last post.

I just wanted to notify you all of this just in case you want to read some of my pieces for a final time, for I am deleting this blog tomorrow. I bid you all farewell and am glad that you appreciate my writing and pieces. Once again, thank you all for everything. <3


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